Ya\u015fam\u0131n i\u00e7inde ya\u015fam kadar ger\u00e7ek olan ve madalyonun di\u011fer y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc olu\u015fturan da \u00f6l\u00fcmd\u00fcr. Ya\u015fam ve \u00f6l\u00fcm birbirlerinin ikizleridirler. Ya\u015fama sevdal\u0131 ve ya\u015fam\u0131n t\u00fcm canl\u0131lar i\u00e7in daha g\u00fczel olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele eden bizleri an geliyor y\u00fcre\u011fimizin taaa orta yerinden vuruyor. Y\u00fcre\u011fimizi yang\u0131n yerine \u00e7eviriyor. \u00d6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc kabullenemeyece\u011fimiz yak\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 al\u0131p ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131zdan kopar\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gidenler ki bizim ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7inde g\u00fczelliktiler, ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n dayanma sebebiydiler. K\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcze dayanma g\u00fcc\u00fcyd\u00fcler. Her \u015feye ra\u011fmen varl\u0131klar\u0131 ile sevgiyi, dostlu\u011fu, yolda\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 vb. \u00fcretirlerdi. Gidi\u015flerini bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc kabullenmek istemeyiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gidenler bazen \u00fcst\u00fcm\u00fczde b\u00fcy\u00fck emekleri olan aile b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz, bazen karde\u015flerimiz, evlatlar\u0131m\u0131z, yolda\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z olabilirler. Bir yerde \u00e7ocuklu\u011funu, gen\u00e7li\u011fini, olgunluk ve sonras\u0131nda da ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f birinin bedeninin art\u0131k ya\u015fam\u0131n y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc ta\u015f\u0131yamaz hale gelmesi ile g\u00f6\u00e7mesini kabullenmek daha kolayd\u0131r. \u00d6l\u00fcm ge\u00e7lere yak\u0131\u015fmamaktad\u0131r. Zor olan evlat ac\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r- ge\u00e7lerin \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcd\u00fcr. \u0130nsan\u0131 ya\u015fama isyan ettirecek noktaya getirir. Y\u00fcre\u011fimiz burkulur ac\u0131m\u0131z tarifsiz olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yas\u0131n\u0131 tutmaya ba\u015flar\u0131z kaybettiklerimizin. Bir m\u00fcddet ac\u0131n\u0131n pen\u00e7esinde kal\u0131r\u0131z. Ancak bu yas\u0131n k\u0131sa bir s\u00fcre sonra tahrip edici etkisinden kurtulup yeniden ya\u015fama d\u00f6rt elle sar\u0131lanmas\u0131 gerekmektedir. “\u00d6lenle \u00f6l\u00fcnm\u00fcyor” ger\u00e7e\u011fi kendini dayatmaya ba\u015flar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc geride kalanlar\u0131n sorumlulu\u011fu ac\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7aresizli\u011fini al\u0131p g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr. Geride kalanlara destek olmak ya\u015fama kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerden devam etmek ve sorumluluklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bilincini \u00f6n plana \u00e7\u0131karmak gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kaybettiklerimizi \u00e7ok seviyoruzdur. O sevgiyi daha da b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcp geride kalanlara payla\u015ft\u0131rmakt\u0131r marifet. Anam\u0131z\u0131 kaybederiz. Bir m\u00fcddet sonra ona olan sevgimizi binlerce Anneye b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp binlerce yeni Anneye ula\u015fabilmek… \u00c7ocu\u011fumuzu kaybederiz o ac\u0131y\u0131 sevgiye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcp binlerce \u00e7ocu\u011fa b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrebilmek… Art\u0131k d\u00fcnyan\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 kaybetti\u011fimiz evlad\u0131m\u0131z yerine koymakt\u0131r marifet. Ac\u0131n\u0131n pen\u00e7esinden kurtulup yeniden a\u015fk\u0131n- sevginin g\u00fcr\u00fcl g\u00fcr\u00fcl akan p\u0131nar\u0131 olabilmektir marifet. Y\u0131k\u0131lmaz bir \u00c7\u0131nar gibi yeniden f\u0131rt\u0131nalara direnmeye d\u00f6nmektir marifet… Gen\u00e7lerimize kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerden bildi\u011fimizi aktarabilmek…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Evlat;<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Olacaksan \u015fu Cihan’da,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ulu bir \u00c7\u0131nar olmal\u0131s\u0131n,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
G\u00f6lgen ya\u015fama kol kanat gersin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Olacaksan \u015fu Cihan’da,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Y\u00fcce bir da\u011f\u0131n zirvesi ol,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Senden s\u0131rt\u0131n\u0131 dayay\u0131p g\u00fc\u00e7 alanlar olsun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Unutma<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne \u00c7\u0131nar\u2019lar kolay kolay devrilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne de y\u00fcce da\u011flar y\u0131k\u0131l\u0131r.
A\u015fk ile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Haz\u0131rlayan ve Yazan<\/em><\/strong><\/em><\/strong>: Veli Balaban<\/em><\/strong><\/em><\/strong><\/em><\/strong><\/em><\/strong>, Payla\u015fan: Selahattin Arslan <\/em><\/strong><\/em><\/strong> Ya\u015fam\u0131n i\u00e7inde ya\u015fam kadar ger\u00e7ek olan ve madalyonun di\u011fer y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc olu\u015fturan da \u00f6l\u00fcmd\u00fcr. Ya\u015fam ve \u00f6l\u00fcm birbirlerinin ikizleridirler. Ya\u015fama sevdal\u0131 ve ya\u015fam\u0131n t\u00fcm canl\u0131lar i\u00e7in daha g\u00fczel olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[1184,55,649,413],"tags":[22,1190],"class_list":["post-5011","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bireysel-paylasimlar","category-bulmus-palanga_tr","category-duyuru-yas-ve-taziye","category-hakka-yuruyenler","tag-selahattin-arslan-tr","tag-veli-balaban"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dewabp.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5011","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dewabp.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dewabp.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dewabp.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dewabp.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5011"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/dewabp.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5011\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5017,"href":"https:\/\/dewabp.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5011\/revisions\/5017"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dewabp.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5011"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dewabp.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5011"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dewabp.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5011"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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